Thursday, May 24, 2007

Warning----heed with caution

For those that don't know what it means. Proceed slowly. It may get a bit bumpy. I unfortunately say it like I see it!

Well, I've had a bit of time to think about the public lynching (must have made X --no I won't tell you who feel warm and fuzzy knowing that people could say such hateful things--name calling from adults?--nice) that I received this week and I do have something to say. I'd much rather have a frontal lobotomy. Or, maybe I should just shoot myself instead. Yeah, sure. I was dragged though the mug with my shoelaces tied around my neck. I personally would have handled the situation differently. But I personally give people the benefit of the doubt before jumping to conclusions. After all you don't know me how dare you judge me?

This I do know:

  1. My children are the most gorgeous precious babies on this earth! No comparison-- ever!! NO need for substitutions. Irresistibly cute. Don't be jealous. See fotos for yourself...
  2. I would have contacted the person (duh) in question rather than put it out for the masses. I don't need anyones confirmation or the thrill of dragging someone from their nose hairs to make myself feel better (my self esteem is in check). I guess I'm just not mean spirited. (don't bother bashing me--- I will delete your post). This does not exemplify the type of behavior I would pass to my children nor want them associated with. To much drama for my ass.
  3. I don't write this post to be anything more than a journal for my kids. I'm sorry that You found it boring. Don't read it! Oh and excuse the grammar errors. I'm usually in a hurry and don't check. Who gives a flying fuck-really? I don't see well...do you make fun of the blind too? Nice.. What is your blog address? I would love to read all your interestingly funny and informative news flash. Not.
  4. I'm shocked that you didn't learn anything here. Did I forget to mention what my kids said today?! "I love you mommy". "Mommy, poo-poo". "K poo-poo". ""Daddy poo-poo". Peeeeaaase, mommy, peeeeassse". Is that enough for you or should I tell you how they toss their clothes in the clothes basket too and washed the cars?! Einsteins.
  5. If you have something to say don't leave an anonymous message. Unless you're chicken shit and have no balls.--Which obviously you don't.
  6. If you really had credentials you would have signed your name boldly(haven't known a doctor yet who doesn't--well a real one anyway) and not hide behind the key board. You claimed to be a professional, are you?! I too have studied for the psychology exam. (really) My guess is you didn't pass....My friend(who I helped study) has two thriving practices with a Dr. title. Don't use your psychology bullshit on me either. I'm quite familiar with it...
  7. I refer to my children fondly as "twinkies" nothing behind it. Please don't inflict your thoughts or opinions (you call yourself a professional?)on me regarding the meaning behind it or your prejudice. I don't buy into any of that "black-white" stuff my family is one giant melting pot--we got it all going-- we even have brown bear and a jew--- ** gasp* Did I forget to tell you we're raising our twins jewish? Idiot. Again, credentials......
  8. Treat other's as you yourself would want to be treated. Is that too hard for you? Before you jump to any conclusions ask........not to difficult... Again I'm a pretty easy person... but don't think you can come in and flam me without so much as a kiss! So, if you want to comment I've set this up for registered visitors only! (this is for all the cowards who think they can come in with their little "quips" and then run. Don't think so -pal).
Wow. I too feel much better getting that off my chest. This blog thing is grrrrrreat! I think I'll go for a run now. Or not. Note to self: must take my meds...

I welcome you to stop by my site as long as you play nice. I work, full time outside the home. Some days are better than others. Let's just leave it at that. I'm a nice person and a good mom and I love my dh. Yeah, I make mistakes, who doesn't? I have to go, my family needs me.

Have a great day!

15 comments:

Sophie's Mom said...

Awe gee... I missed the coward's comment. Guess I didn't miss much, eh? From your post it doesn't seem to have any merit, anyway.

Go get 'em girl!

Now can we talk you out of having that darn word verification? My eyes don't always see those letters correctly...

Christine
p.s. My kiddos are darn cute too! ;)

crazylady said...

Sweetheart, I'm glad you said what was in your heart. I will stand by you. You are a dear friend and an amazing woman. We all need a safe place to vent. Using spell check doesn't make one nicer, smarter or a more valuable person.
I don't blog for fans. My theory is, if you don't like, don't read. Period. I have known you long enough to insult you ;o), and these people don't . It is not becoming to anyone to flame someone that you don't even know or just on behalf of someone else. Now go get your camera and do what you do best.
Love you,
This too shall pass.
Senja
xoxo

Beverly said...

What the he** I missed something. Great post. Your girls are cute and they are twins so twinkies should be okay, right? I am a child of the 80s and we used twinkies for matching a lot. You go girl. Journal for your girls. We are just along for the ride.

Beverly

Jen Magnuson said...

What did I miss???

tegdirb92 said...

Your site rocks, and don't let anyone else tell you differently! Where else would I go to get my daily twin fix?

Bridget

kerri said...

Gooo girl, I mised the comments, your site is great and so are you. To the idiot who posted, get a life, these are two terrific little ones who just happen to have one caring Mom. Move on to your next target...now!

secret agent said...

Yaholes are sooooo irritating!
No netiquette whatsoever.
Yeah, you post what you want... we read cuz we like you.
Would Dr. Yahole go into someones living room and insult... Yo Yahole stop by my place!!!!

Ya know, mine is a second blog... I took the whole thing down and started a new.
My jackass comments were from an Inlaw... so I took it down so they couldn't read.
I feel like a bailed out...
but I left a good final message.

So sorry you had to take a moment out of your life to deal with this.

Diana said...

You go get 'em girl!!! You must feel TONS better now that you have that off of your chest. Now back to keeping it real....
Hugs,
Di

Steffie B. said...

Ok....obviously I missed something and boy are you ticked. Hope you have a better day and I'll be sticking around to read up on your beautiful twinkies!

MississippiZen said...

Guess I missed it too but from the sound of it, I didn't miss anything that wouldn't have pi**ed me off too! I look forward to seeing your little "twinkies" and love reading your blog..... you say things without holding back and I love that about you!

shelley said...

If you are referring to a certain blogger who accused you of "plagurizing (sp)" her blog...I thought that was totally ridiculous. If SHE uses terms on her blog are we completely banned from ever using those phrases?? Give me a break. Blogs are just that...a peak into a beautiful families life. It isn't meant to be a education in spelling or cuteness. Remember the wonderful Chinese saying?? There is one beautiful child in the world and every mother has them. My children are pretty darn cute if you ask me. Please stop by and give them a look.

shelley
www.finishingourfamilyfromchina.blogspot.com

Kim said...

I know the feeling. I had a horrible name-calling comment from 'anonymous' on my blog (my very FIRST comment, mind you.) Not very encouraging. It was stupid and even a little scarey/crazy - just ranting and name calling. I say to this creep- get a life! Who knows, it could very well be the same 'anonynous' person that left you nasty comments. Thank you for your recent comment on my blog - it was very encouraging. I love your blog too! And your twins are adorable.

Cindy from central NC said...

Rony,
Jeez, and I didn't even get to help you stand up to that bully! Here's the deal with mean people (on top of the fact that they suck....and I hate using that word but it's so perfect.) No, here's what happens to them: it all comes back to them. All of it. Every-single-solitary-mean-thing they did with no-exceptions comes back to bite them in the ass. My grandmother said it "all works out in the wash" and she's right. Nice guys always finish first. The meanest person I know is my brother-in-law and now he's 70yrs old and everyone hates him for being so mean for so long. In fact, I'll bet that blogger WAS my brother-in-law!! :0

-Cindy

Tamela said...

Hey Rony, it's Kurtz. I've been reading your blog for quite sometime now. I really enjoy all of your picture.

Sorry you had such a bad experience. I to believe that what goes around comes around in the end.

Love ya!

Tammy

cougchick said...

I have been lame in getting to your site. I was beyond shocked when I got my updated post email from "she shall remain un-named" and read what she wrote. By the time I went to her blog to read it she had already taken it off but the first several sentences were already out there to those who subscribe to her blog (it sends out an auto email each time she posts). I have always found her site funny but after reading that post I lost mucho respecto and I'm so glad that you finally posted about it. It was so completely unnecessary and spiteful. Hang in there Rony. I love reading your blog and your twins are scrumptious!