Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Philanthropy Thursday

For those of you who haven't stumbled upon Get in the car's blog! she is one funny, funny(super smart) chick. It's ok to call you that?! (the funny part--everyone knows you're smart) Right Jen? BUT, she learned something today that wracked her world. Her perfect world. She was brokenhearted to discover that the living conditions in New Orleans showed almost no improvement since Hurricane Katrina. It had been two years since the catastrophe shook the city of New Orleans. She was shocked. She found this so disturbing. So, tragic. How could we leave our own to live in such conditions? She is asking for all of our help in something that has touched her to her very core. To aid the folks of Katrina. She has even provided the stunning diamond(fh replaced it with something else when the re-newed their vows) ring to auction off on E-bay. The wedding ring her fh gave her the day they said their nuptials and promised "I do" forever. With her permission I have copied and pasted her entire E-bay posting. Please stop by her site to let her know you too care and want to help.

1.3 c Diamond Ring To Benefit Hurricane Katrina Victims
All Proceeds to Habitat for Humanity in New Orleans Item number: 120156286254

I have wanted to do something, anything, for some time to help the victims of Hurricane Katrina. Sadly, I am like most people. I live far from the damage. I have a busy, fulfilling life as a mother and writer. I am privileged, with medical care, adequate insurance, and family earning potential that would shelter me from the tragic circumstances of those affected by Hurricane Katrina.

I'm not rich, however. And so I go about my life musing how "one day," when we make just a little bit more, I will do something fantastic to help those in need. How many of us think this way? That if we can't do something grand, then we will not do anything at all? We will wait for the perfect opportunity to arise. Let me tell you, that is probably never going to happen.

And so fate had me at home in the afternoon today. With four children causing me to put more miles on my car than a NYC Taxi cab, I am rarely home when Oprah airs. And when I am? I am doing fun(!) things like cleaning toilets, dodging pets, agonizing over homework, or moderating yet another bickerfest between my older children. But today I was tired. And feeling sorry for myself. I had had it *up to here* with the eye-rollings and door slammings that are par for the course with preteens in the house. Poor me, right?

Oprah aired a show today showcasing the fallout of Hurricane Katrina, two years later. I was floored. In some areas, it's as if nothing has been done. Thousands of families are living in FEMA trailers that were intended as temporary housing. These families are now sick, due to the formeldehyde seeping from the particle board walls. One family shown, with five beautiful children, had the mom talking about how her children endured severe nosebleeds, were on handfuls of pills, and how her 18 month old son (who looked a lot like my own 13 month old boy) had to use a breathing aid every day, he was so sick from his own home.

I wept.

I learned that the crime rate is horrendus, rendering a certain section in New Orleans the worst in the nation. There is a fraction of the doctors and nurses there once was, few hospital beds, and an increased death rate.

This is America? This is how insurance companies pay back their clients? This is how we, as fellow human beings allow things to get? What if this were me? Or you? Or your best friend? What would you do differently?

So I've decided that the people in New Orleans are my new best friends. I have a wedding ring set that I was holding on to, either to have made into earrings or sell and fund a trip to Europe with my daughters. It's 1.3 total carats. We bought it at Fred Meyer Jewelers in 1993. The solitaire is just under .8 carats, and the ring wrap, which is sautered to the band, is four diamonds, totalling .5 carats. It's beautiful. Shortly after my husband and I renewed our wedding vows four and a half years ago, he surprised me with a different ring, which is why I have had this one, in its original box.

We paid $1,800 for the solitaire and $700 for the wrap in 1993. It's insured for $5,000. You can see no flaws with the naked eye, although with a loup I suppose you can, since it's graded as SI, with an H color. For all the years I wore it, I received so many compliments I lost count. It sparkles like crazy, and during our lean years as a young couple, I took a lot of pride in always having that one beautiful thing.

Whoever wins this bid will be required to send funds to the New Orleans Habitat for Humanity. I will not touch a check, since I would rather get the money to them as soon, and as simply, as possible.

My hope? That you all decide New Orleans is your new best friend, or daughter, or mom, and bid as much as you can and feel good when you send that check to a charity that will help rebuild part of America. Maybe a part of you will be rebuilt, too.

If you would like to learn how more people are getting involved in ways they can, please visit where each Thursday I will be asking members of the blogsophere and beyond to put their heads together and see how we can make a difference, one small act at a time.

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Yes, Minister... said...

WOW ~ now that is something called empowering! Last February we drove the highway that runs by all the beaches in Mississippi, and it was beyond shocking! Nothing has been done except rebuilding the casinos! I love what you are doing ~ You go girl!

kerri said...

Inspiring and beautiful...
I'm truly sorry for the people having to endure such horrific conditions after such a catastrophic event.

Jeter's Mama said...

great, GREAT post!!!!
We had A LOT of people come here to GA to start over. Many shelters, and donation centers popped up right around me. I spent hundreds of dollars on pampers, baby food, clothing, etc... and brought it to the donation center. When I pulled up, I was planning on me and the kids just dropping the goods off and leaving. There were several cars and buses from New Orleans there. Tons of people/families pouring in for help/aide.
The place was in disarray, and very unorganized. I couldn't just drop my donations off and leave like I planned on doing since I had my 3 kids with me, and we still needed to go home and do homework / fix dinner. Instead we stayed and helped organize the supplies and stock shelves. My kids saw first hand people that had NOTHING. They saw that YES as a human, you help whenever you can. You don't sit back and say, "I wish I could do more" you get your butt up and actually do it.
We also had several kids start at their school that had nothing and as a school we pulled together and supplied them with free lunches, clothing and school supplies.
It always starts with one person saying "I've had enough, I'm going to do something!"
And you have done that.

stephanie said...

The other night we re-watched Spike Lee's, When The Levee Broke. Heartwrenching. Is this administration almost out of office yet?????????

My husband and I were just talking the other day about picking a charity to benefit from our Halloween stores. Thank you for your post, you made our decision easy.

mrs incredible said...

you are nice to post that... she is a great girl, I love her site.

PS - I gave you an award,so come by my site later...

redmaryjanes said...

What an incredible woman who's putting her diamond where her mouth is. I'm proud of her.

A Special Family said...

Brings tears to my eyes. You know we all think, we can't do anything, but we all managed to adopt internationally which takes, time, money, beaurocracy, we all have amazing resources and we can do something. If you look at child sponsorship, it's amazing that $35 a month saves children's lives, saves families lives, saves villages lives (clean drinking water, education etc!). Great post my friend, great post!

jennifer said...

That's awesome. Being so close to NO, it amazes me that people really don't know how bad it is. But what really amazes me is how alot of people who live here don't know how bad it is either. Oprah's show was awesome, but very upsetting. It is so sad.

Salome's Mom said...

What good heart you have. I know about the conditions that still remain. If we all do what we can, even if it is small, we can help these people.